My boyfriend fights a lot with me and talks bad about me sometimes i also need relationship advice please help?

see the thing is, my boyfriend is always trying to fight with me about something. he constantly misinterprets what i say, twist everything around to where it sounds like im judging him or trying to wrong him etc and tries to fight about that, he'll even fight with me if he says something and i throw in my opinion. he says that im the one starting a fight and that im contradicting everything he says and even puts me down sometimes. also sometimes if im a late getting somewhere to meet up with him he goes to my friends and his and calls me names. we just got engaged and are moving in together soon and i love him a lot and don't want things to be like this when we are living together, hes a very good and loving person for the most part but he changes all the sudden and it turns to all this, i don't know whats wrong with him. can someone please give me some advice on what i can do to fix this without him getting mad.My boyfriend fights a lot with me and talks bad about me sometimes i also need relationship advice please help?
Step 1. Tell him EXACTLY how you feel.


Step 2. Give him the chance to change or adapt to your needs while


guiding him and applying to same process to his needs.


Step 3. If he doesn't choose to, find a new boyfriend.


Simple.My boyfriend fights a lot with me and talks bad about me sometimes i also need relationship advice please help?
Find another bf. This guy has problems. Why put yourself through all his BS?





You're engaged to him? Why? You like fights? You think this is all going to magically change? He's got to change his behavior. It's unacceptable. It disrepectful. And where is your self-respect?





You're marrying him but you don't know what's wrong with him? Hello? Ask yourself why you are setting yourself up for misery and failure.
In a loving relationship the following tips may be useful to everyone -


路 Know yourself and be honest with yourself and love yourself -- first! Only then can you truly appreciate and love someone else.


路 Take good care of yourself. Treating yourself with respect and love is as important as respecting and loving your partner. Conduct yourself with dignity, even if you're very familiar with one another.


路 All good relationships are based upon mutual respect. If you do not feel respect for your partner, or believe your partner is losing respect for you, then consider ways of rebuilding it immediately. Respect is the key. If you have true respect for one another, then nothing can go wrong. You just have to find the right person to respect, this is the hard part.


路 Ask questions, clarify, don't assume. Do not talk if your mind is not clear or full of anger. When you feel hurt, do not say ';you don't love me / you never loved me'; or ';let's break up'; or ';when do you want to break up?';. You will regret one day. Tell him or her you feel hurt, and ask for clarification first.


路 Be the first to tell your partner, either positive or negative. Trust is as essential as respect. If you want your partner to trust you, trust him or her first. Letting your partner play guessing games may lead to misunderstanding and frustration. But, don't just tell him or her the issue, also talk about your plan to solve it.


路 Strike while the iron is cold. Know when to be reflective and invoke principles. When the house is burning is no time to teach fire safety principles.


路 Communicate with your partner. Without communication, there is no relationship. Stay in touch by, for example, calling your partner even if it's just to say 'hi' and 'I love you'.


路 Avoid any activity that could cause your partner to experience doubt, suspicion or distrust - build your credibility and earn trust and respect by always communicating truthfully and proactively, and always keep your words.
Hi dear you know what find a very good time and talk to him about his behaviour and how its affecting you give him some one week to see if there will be any change.If there isnt any change then dont waste your time please get out of the relationship cuz this is a sign of an abusive relationship to be so if you want to be verbally or physically abused in the future and if you wish for a bright future for your children then pls take precaution
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This is a horrible situation to be in, I have been in the exact same situation with a friend...and I'd hate to be the one to tell you, but he is a manipulatorative person, and you're pretty much locked in this relationship, and won't be happy until you state your mind! I know, he won't be 'happy' when he realizes he hasn't got you under complete control, but you are your own person, and a relationship is about supporting the other person, as well as being your own person, I cannot fret enough that you really really have to state your opinion in this relationship, otherwise one day you will just crack, and really hurt him. I know, your probably thinking ';I dont want him to be mad etc'; but EVERY relationship must include fights for it to be healthy, no matter how much you don't want to hear it. He most likely won't leave you for bringing it up, thats ridiculous, but IF he did (which he won't) you know hes not good for you. If hes like this now.. imagine what he could do to you later. Specially if he is bagging you out to YOUR friends, you need to confront him and tell him your p***ed off, because you have a right, and please don't be afraid, because I was for many years with my friend, and I was trapped under her wing, not being my own person until I just CRACKED and we had a massive fight almost tearing apart our friendship. Yet, now that she knows, its gotten better.
He may feel that you are verbally attacking him which could be why he's being so defensive. He might also think that by dissagreeing with him or giving him your opinion that you consider yourself more intelligent than he is. I know it sounds kinda crazy but I've been in a similar situation and that was the case. The best thing you can do is talk to him and see what's going on inside his head. It's likely that your fiance is sensitive and doesn't like being told what to do because he thinks that you consider him an idiot. Try not to say something that would hurt his self esteem. You might want to hold off on the wedding plans if things worsen. hope it works out for the best
My ex and i had this problem when we were still together, sometimes you have to let him go. if he acts like this it means he doesnt care. might sound harsh...but its true, it seems like he wants to hurt you or, in the great case of my ex, he wants YOU to be the one to break up with him because he doesnt want to hurt you. what i'd do, reguardless of a fight or not, confront him and tell him he needs to stop and you will not be treated like that and if he doesnt love you enough to care to make an effort then he needs to go reguardless of what he is on good days. dont ever let what a guy says keep you from thinking you are an amazing person. im sure you are and if he doesnt realize it, he needs to go
its probally hard but let him go


his not worth it

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