Saturday, December 19, 2009

Can someone give me relationship advice?

I'm 18, pisces and I'm torn right now. My current boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 months. He's 16 (2 years younger than me) and a pisces as well. I mean he's so much like me, I feel like he mind as well be my reflection. When it's good, it's great. He treats me like no one else has treated me (and that's why age doesn't matter with him) and I love it. We have both even established that we love each other. However, lately he's been kind of distant..I mean we go to the same school and we never see each other and we haven't talked on the phone in like 2 days and I sorta don't know what to think (this is the second time something like this has happened). All the while there is this other guy I had previous been seeing (he's 19 and he's a scorpio) and we never really worked because we couldn't make time for each other (or maybe that was our excuse) but we had so much chemistry and compassion for each other. I loved him and would do anything for him but he never showed he felt the same until last night when he confessed that he was in love with me and he needed me in his life and he wants to know if I feel the same or am willing to try it out again and forreal this time. I don't know what to do and I'm so confused!!!Can someone give me relationship advice?
To get in love by age below than 18's, it is consider MONKEY's LOVE. You will waste you time and money.. better find someone who older than you to secure your future..





just advice...Can someone give me relationship advice?
Since you dont know what to do, dont do anything. At least for right now. Wait a few days, maybe even a week. We all need some space, even girls. Keep in touch if you need to, drop a txt to let them know you are thinking of them, but don't act on anything yet. You may end up ruining a good thing with the first guy, if it turns out he just needs some space. And the second guy should know better than to pursue you, fully knowing you are in a relationship. In fact, its completely ok to tell 2nd guy, im in a relationship now, and want to see how that works out. If he truly cares about you, he will want you to be happy, and to find out for yourself. Also, I do think you are young, so just go easy with the relationships. Fall in love of course, that's wonderful. But careful of the consequences: emotional betrayal, trust issues you would be breaking, and other things like early pregnancy, std's, etc.

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