Saturday, December 19, 2009

Can i get some relationship advice?

me and my girlfriend have like right at everything in common im 15 and shes 16 and her parents argue all the time and it really upsets her and she just wont tell anybody and then like for example shell get really upset and hit something or stick up 4 her mom or something and then shell get grounded and shes always grounded and recently i was talking 2 her and she complained cuz her stomach hurt and she felt nausious and she told me that it was cuz she hadnt eaten in 3 days bcuz she thaught that she was fat and shes actually skinny in my honest opinion but what can i do about the parents grouding her issue and about the eating issue?


thx in advance,


fredCan i get some relationship advice?
Nothing much you can do. She has to deal with it, all you can do is help support her, but she has to come to grips. When she turns 18 she can file in court for emancipation.





LiL 1Can i get some relationship advice?
nothing you can do about the grounding part. That is the business of her and her parents. The eating part, be there for her, and if you feel entirely concerned about her health or well being, talk to someone you can trust.
honestly, this is coming from someone who's been there, and i'd really like you to listen to me closely.





My parents are the same way as hers, and i know forsure that she's terrified more than anything, and it seems like there's nothing she can do, when honestly, there is... she needs to talk to someone, and needs to tell someone how she feels. Really, there's nothing you can so about her parents grounding her, they're her parents, they can do what they want, and you jus have to be there to support her. Unlucky me had boyfriends who didn't stick around; and that's what you really need to do, stick around, no matter what, if you really care about her, you wouldn't care that she's grounded, cause just the feeling of kowing someone's there for her will make her feel sooo great.





And with the not eating thing, you need to convience her to eat, or tell her friends that she needs to eat, she may not like you telling her, but if forcing her's the only way, then so be it. she's way to young to even being to start sucha stupid habbit.





Just be there for her, i promise in the long run, everything will turn out just fine...

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