I have been with my guy for 6 years. I can honestly say that I love him and care about him. We had an argument today that ended up with him throwing the ';F'; word at me.....and the argument was over an iron being plugged in! He tends to be selfish, inconsiderate, and unaffectionate. I know he loves me in his own way, but I am tired of being the one to compromise. I love him, but I love myself too....and I'm tired of not having the man I deserve. He doesn't even like to kiss!!...which is something I love. I never like yelling, ever. Neither do I think a couple should ever curse at one another.....that is not acceptable. This isn't the first time an incident like this has happened, which is a good indication it will happen again at some point. I am considering moving to a new location/state and starting over. I am not interested in dating other people, but I don't want to live with someone who reacts like this either. I know I am asking for advice, when it is quite obvious what I should do, but I thought some of you might have some advice from experience to give me. I appreciate it, thanks.Anyone willing to give relationship advice?
I have a feeling that if you leave, you'll miss him. So be aware ot that. When you're with someone, you take them for granted. Seeing them everyday is no longer a luxury, it's commonplace. So this makes it easy to see the bad things. When you're away from him, you'll think about all the good times, and the things you love and miss about him.
So, if you leave, do so. I'd recommend not too much contact with him, as it'll make it more difficult, but I understand that if he's one of your best friends too then it's not fair to either of you to be cut off completely.
If you think there's no chance of it working, and you aren't willing to try anymore, then you should leave with no regrets.
Good luck.
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