OK ADVICE?? relationship issues but kids involved?

me and my fiancee have 2 kids and we had them quick in the relationship we've always been really close but now im grown up and a parent and its like he never grew up and we fight about the kids all the time...i think he should spend more time and he thinks that he does enough and that hes entitles to relax but yet i think i never get to relax why arent we in this together we both work full time why should my mom role be 24/7 yet he can shut daddy off whenever? im starting to resent him and everything...i always just make up with him but im tired of doing it even though its better for the kids. i mean we're not abusive to eachother its more of constantly unnerving eachother, little quirks..should i walk away this time or try again?? like i said it feels like bumps in the road everytime but im just tired of this road i think..i dont know what to say to him when i see him tonight?OK ADVICE?? relationship issues but kids involved?
A parent role is 24/7. You both need a break from kids, it is the father responsibility to also chip in. You should both make a schedule and atleast 2 a month each of you in separate occasions goes out and gets break from each other and the kids. Nothing extravagent something like you go out do your nails, lunch friend, he goes to ball game with the guys etc. You state you both work when you both get home split up the chores -- one does cooking other dishes; one bathe the kids the other put the to sleep; etc. This is a two way responsiblity not one, stop giving in and put your foot down, he is also taking advantage of you. I dont care if he is tired so are you.OK ADVICE?? relationship issues but kids involved?
your exactly like my mom and dad.


if your husband isnt there for your kids and you think you can support them or just get child support then leave him because my mom always says she wants to leave my father but never does and i know she dose not like her life.
my advise is that you try talking to him again and tell him excatly how you feel dont hold nothing back if he is not wiling to help and change for you and the kids then maybe you do need to leave it is not fair for the kids to have to hear there parents fight all the time i have a son and me and his father fought all the time we never ould get along so i left i did not stay for my son b/c he knew when his mommy and daddy was fighting and i did not think that it was fair we are happy now and better he does not have to hear us fight and he sees his dad all the time hope this helps and dont think that you have to stay with him for your kids if you are happy you kids wil be to the want you to be happy just like you want them to be happy
You guys need counseling. He needs a third party to tell him to help you with the burden of parenting. If he doesn't want to do counseling tell him that you are considering moving out or kicking him out.
Welcome to adulthood and marriage. Work it ou for the kids. Nothing in life is going to be a cake walk, don't expect to get your wonderland.