Anyone that's good with relationship advice?

About a week ago, my boyfriend %26amp; I ended our relationship on somewhat mutual terms. He left, I was fine, he was fine..and now I am a complete emotional wreck. I guess I didn't realize what we really had until he was gone, completely out of my life. He is my best friend in the world, the love of my life, and I am so lost without him. We haven't talked, I've made an attempt, but he doesn't seem to really care too much and it hurts. I've tried to move on and speak with other guys but it's not the same, they don't care about anything but hooking up. I honestly don't know what to do or how to move on. I'm depressed and need a little advice on what to do. Anyone else ever gone through a similar situation? How did you finally get on with your life?Anyone that's good with relationship advice?
everyone has babe.its gonna take some time,just be single for a while go out with friends.it will get easier.xxxAnyone that's good with relationship advice?
confront him about it and tell him how u feel. I have. but there will be other guys that just dont want to hook up. people change. but there is someone out there for everyone-even u. so dont give up!
That happened to me four years ago. Except it wasn't so nice. I had just gotten back from a trip, and it was our one year anniversary. He was my first love and broke it off over the phone. I was an emotional wreck for weeks. For 2 months I gave up on all men. I said ';Screw it, I'll die alone. All guys want is in my pants, and I don't do that!'; So I gave up. When I finally came to terms that I was over him and moving on, my sister introduced me to someone. Three years later, we are getting married. So don't fret. You will find your special someone, he just always comes along just when you stop looking.
Maybe you should try to get back with the ex? If thats out of the question, maybe u need to stop comparing him with the new guys, and try to focus on the positive or different qualities in the guys your going after. Also, hooking up at the bar isn't the best way to find long-term. Find some other groups or people at work, etc. Although I have met several great girls after a night of drinking.
Stay busy and yes every male and female out there has had a broken heart. Guess what you will recover in time. From what you write about him now not wanting to talk should tell you he is good with moving on.


Why are you so worried about him when there are so many nice boys out there you have yet to meet.
first of all pursuing other guys will only make your ex harder to get over. every girl has that trigger in their mind that when something happens like a break up and they see things around them that remind them of their ex they instantly go and look for those memories and little things in someone else. which is the worst thing you truly could do. like i tell my girl friends as hard as it sounds, time heals everything, even the worst of things.


for example the first and only love i have had in my life is gone and im still not over it and its been well over 8 months.. its one of those things where you have to wait.. the waiting does get trying and it does hurt at times but the more you surround your self with good things the stronger you truly feel.


as for talking to him its one of those things about guys, for most men is you let them be, and they ultimately will come around. and if they dont it really proves you came out better in the relationship then they did. guys need their space, weather in a relationship or out of one. its something you should respect. if you wait a little and not ask to hang out or anything if your as close as you say i bet you something will happen and one of these nights he will need you as a friend and you should be willing to take that. (DON'T pursue anything about your past relationship if hes talking to you about something different, bad bad idea for many reasons, focus on the conversation HES putting fourth)





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i would let him know how you feel at this point and if he doesn't respond shows how much he cares for you...but i would try and move on but only when your ready.
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Having said that though, it's only been a week. Perhaps you are just scared about being alone and getting that confused with missing him.
Instead of openly inviting other guys into relationships (serious or not), you should simply be their friend first, so that they can become emotionally fond of you and want more than just hooking up.





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This sounds exactly like my last relationship with my ex bobby...our relationship lasted eleven months and bob was the best person i had ever been with! But we ended on mutual terms. Bobby moved on after about a week but after afew days i was heart broken. i thought i was fine but it sort of just hit me one day that i was all alone. everything i had that was great and stable in my life had ended...i went to bobby's house crying and apologized. Asked for them to take me back...obviously bobby refused because there was another girl in the picture. I still remember both of us crying but sometimes these things hapen.





Only time can make this better. As crappy as that sounds. Rebounds will only tear you apart worse and until you know for sure that you are truly over your ex i wouldn't try getting into another relationship.





The way I see it, you have two paths you can go down. Go after him, and take the risk of rejection which may hurt you worse (or help you alot) or you can take the time to move on. realize that if it's meant to be you'll be together again. But things like this can't be forced.





I hope I helped a little.