My sons dad and I were together for 4 years-We broke up in October and now he says he ';probably'; has a new girlfriend-He keeps saying different things about her like sometimes no she is not my girlfriend and then he will call her his chick or something. He slept at her house last night he goes out to movies, dinner etc- He says they havent talked about being bf/gf and that they havent had sex either. The thing is is that we had sex 2 weeks ago and I feel used-now he is saying he doesnt remember that we had sex- He usually watches our son at my house and I told him I will meet him at his moms cause he doesnt need to be at my house-usually he is there at 7:15a and he said that since I am making him go to his moms he wont be there til 7:30-I will be late to work!! He is trying to control me it feels like- So I said forget it and our son is just going to daycare in the am. I need advice on what to do to both get my mind off of him and to make it so that he does not have mental control!I need advice---Relationship--?
I've had a few friends go through simliar situations but my advice would be to have a serious conversation with him about how you feel and what needs to be done. Maintain your relationship as parents and that's what is most important. It may be difficult because you had a long relationship but think about what is best for you and stop the ';friends with benefits'; relationship. Don't settle for being #2!!!I need advice---Relationship--?
Don't let him call the shots. If he's gonna keep using you and sleep with her at the same time no one wins but him. Be smart and leave this guy now!
Honey, when you figure it out, let me know... Cause I have been in this situation for 2 and a half years.
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