Im a guy looking for relationship advice, please help me?

so as you can tell, i'm a bit desperate here. i'm currently with a girl who's such a sweetheart but she isn't anything like my ex. my ex and i were together for a year and she moved away because of some family issues she had so we sort of grew apart. now shes back and all those feelings i had for her came back. we've been hanging out but she knows im with a girl who i really would hate to hurt. its just my ex and i have that connection. we enjoy every moment we spend together and laugh all the time. shes wonderful. i feel like i truly love her but then there's the girl im with. i feel soo bad cause shes such a sweetheart but we never laugh. it takes me hours just to get her to smile. should i stay with her and try to make it work? or explain to her i still love my ex. i need a lot of advice..badly.Im a guy looking for relationship advice, please help me?
Was your ex your first love? If so, remember that there will ALWAYS be something there for her! Even if you and her are both with someone new, there will always be that connection and a place in your heart for her that will never be filled by anyone else. What you have to decide if it is love your still feeling for her or if it is just that connection with her. Try looking farther than just the present. Picture your life 5 to 10 years down the road. Who do you see? Which girl is it easier to picture your life without? Whatever happens, always follow your heart and go where it leads you. You should never stay with a person you don't love because you are afraid of hurting them. It may seem better for her in the short-run, but in the long-run you'll be hurting her more by not giving her the love she deserves. I wish I could offer you some better advice, but this is one of those questions that ONLY you can answer for yourself! Good luck sweetie! Hope it all works out 4 you. :)Im a guy looking for relationship advice, please help me?
i agree with the whole ';follow your heart'; thing. but i know that doesnt help one bit. go with the old girlfriend. your recent one isnt making you happy, and the longer you keep this up, the more unhappy she will be. so if you tell her the truth, you stop wasting both of your time and you both get to do what you want.=everyone is happy. let her down soft, just dont make up somoething stupid cause she WILL find out. they always do =).
You can't stay with someone just to keep from letting them down or just because they're sweet---you'll only end up hurting them anyway. Sounds like you already know your decision.
Follow your heart! =)
hear with your head, listen with your heart.