NEED ADVICE relationship problems?!?

i am not happy w/ my bf. he doesnt spend much time with me. he has also never introduced me to his family or his friends. we have been together for almost 16months. also his ex is #1 on his myspace. i just feel like he is embarrassed of me and doesnt respect me, but i am soo in love with him. i have told him the problems i dont expect him to read my mind. he took so long to take off the pics that he had of his ex off his myspace. she doesnt even kno i exist. i have talked to her but i concealed my identity and she proved that he isnt lying or cheating on me. but she wants to get bak w/ him. he still lives w/ his parents and whenever his mom asks him to go home he does when he's with me. he doesnt even say im with my gf. he claims he loves me soo much more than anyone and that he's not embarrassed of me. i kno he loves me, but i dont think he respects my wishes. please just give me serious answers, thank you.NEED ADVICE relationship problems?!?
if he is not giving you what you want the first step in any relationship is to talk to him about it.


the second... depending on the response he gave you.. you would either give him time to show that he meant what he said and would do better.


or if he didnt say anything like that.. then break up with him.


and after you wait for a while... you would decide whether or not he was doing a good job.. and if he is.. then your problems solved... and if hes not.... you would be better off with someone else that would treat you right.NEED ADVICE relationship problems?!?
Sorry but you asked the true: he is selfish, spoiled and childish...besides he doesn't respect you.You need to have more self respect and your self esteem more high girl.I say if you like to suffer keep him, but if you wan to be stronger, more happy and free of stress, end the relationship.It doesn't really matters much what he says,it's more important the way he treats you and what he do for you...just write down in a paper the good and the bad...than just weight both and pick!!Good luck!!and if you think you cannot get over the break up you will, believe me....
sometimes the best way to find out if someone cares is when you're no longer around.





some people don't appreciate what they've got, until it's gone.





another thing is, a guy who wants his ex back only wants her cuz he no longer has her. when he gets her, he won't want her.


and the girl only wants him cause she lost him and now that he has someone else, she wants him...when she get's him, she'll dump him as soon as she finds someone better.





classic case of ';players syndrome';





i'd stay away from these type of people
if he pays more attention to his ex than he does you, then i'd break up. it's kinda insane that over a year and you've never met his friends or family. you're better than that, everyone is better than that. break up with him and try to find another man.
yeah if ur not happy w him, it's time to break-up. I don't think he's a very good guy.