Can you offer me some relationship advice?

Here's the deal: I am torn between these two great guys. One of them is a friend of a friend's. ';Chris'; is really sweet. He calls and texts me several times a day. Sometimes, he'll have a reason to talk, but other times, he'll just hit me up to say hi. The problem I have with him is (and I know this is really shallow) he isn't cute... like at all. Also, while I appreciate that he shows his interest in me with an everyday call, he seems rather clingy. I like having a little me time. Anyways, this other guy, ';Steven';, is really sweet, too. He's one of my best friends. We've known each other for a couple of years now. Mainly, we'll talk through IM or something. It's a treat to have him call me. I've liked him now for about 5 or 6 months. He has a sort of awkwardness about him, but I still think he's cute, and we are able to talk about anything. We enjoy each other's company. I've debated over whether or not I should tell him how I feel. I fear rejection. However, my fear is somewhat irrational because he's tells me whenever he's crushing on a new girl. In the past, each one of those crushes have rejected him. It breaks my heart, too. He goes through the trouble of buying flowers and writing poetry. Lately, he hasn't been talking about his most recent crush. She's got a boyfriend. A little time afterwords, he would talk about how he'd still try for her, but now, he hasn't mentioned her. Should I try my luck with my best friend and risk rejection? How do I tell him without guilting him into reciprocating my feelings towards him? Do I tell him on the phone, through text, email? How long should I put it off? If I were to tell ';Steven'; I like him as more than a friend, how do I politely get ';Chris'; to back down?Can you offer me some relationship advice?
It seems you do not like Chris, so don't wast the poor man's time.. Tell him you only see him as a friend. Be polite. Go ahead and tell Steven you like him.. I know it's easier said than done but you have to get it out.. What will happen is going to happen, be brave.. If possible, tell him face to face.. If not, maybe a text will do although you have to say it seriously or he'll think your are just joking around.Can you offer me some relationship advice?
You could go out with the other guy and tell Chris that what he is doing is sweet and everything but you have bf and you don't wan to ruin your relationship with either of th e two boys
forget Chris


tell Steave your free one night and see what his Response is .
Happens all the time girl!!! Maybe to get Stevens attention start talking about liking one of his close friends(just to see how he reacts) and then maybe say no never mind a later that day! Depending on his reaction will tell you if he likes you more than a friend or as a friend! Talk to him in person...cuz if he is a close friend you will be able to see the answer when you look at him in the eyes!! You shouldn't tell chris n e thing after a while he will get the hint! (normally)
Take the chance with Steven. Only because you got alot more to say about him than with Chris. Plus. You said some negative things about chris and it doesnt look like steven is that big of a problem. Tell him in person how you feel. Tell him that you guys need to talk and You need to talk about it in person. Because thats the only way you can really tell him. Don't wait much longer. And also tell him that it kills you to seee him get hurt and that maybe you guys should try.
It's hard when you have a crush on your best friend but if you have one for him there might be a chance he can have one for you. But then again, rejection can leave a bump in the relationship depending on how its handled but alot of relationships start from a friendship...like mine did.


You can be subtle and make little hints to see how he reacts or do things that are more for couples or things that you would do in a relationship...he might like you and be unaware of it...like another path to choose from but to him the path isnt cleared so he passes it by...maybe he needs someone to open it for him. You know him best so you will know how. Another option is to come out and talk to eachother and let him know what feelings you are having and what you think of him. You dont have to come out and say...I like you more than a friend...but maybe something more subtle maybe see if he hold your hand...will he lean in for a kiss if youre close enough, how will he react if he thought you were into someone else...not by lying though..never lie


test it out....but dont do anything like this through text or email


And as for the other guy, hes sweet and everything and might have false hope for something between you but if you want him to still be a friend, maybe ';miss'; some of his calls to let him know you are not available for him all the time.


i hope everything works out for you
well if you tell steven that you like him, and he likes you, you can tell chris you have a boyfriend and he'll get the message. as for the telling steven part, i have no idea. sorry... im not good with confronting people with things like that but good luck :)
I dunno... i kinda had your experience... but i'm the ';Chris'; of the situation... so i think u just have to tell chris that u like someone... and gamble with steven... simple as that... chris have to get over... coz men get over... we're players remember? then do something about your connection with steven... don't expect anything... just do the things u do with him.. show some hints.. like joking around about how u like him... but not to the point that it sounds bullshit... and don't expect anything... just wait for improvements... he'll make his move if he wants u





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Second, choose the one you like, not the one you should like or could like. Call him, text him, IM him, or talk to him in person if that's what you want, it really doesn't matter. Ask him out somewhere and make sure its just the two of you, he'll get the hint.

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