In need of some friendship/relationship advice! Please help!?

I went out with this girl named Heather (cherry_coke_14) for a week in the beginning of Oct. We broke up and this guy named Avery became my best friend. Turns out he has been in love with her since before we went out. But the catch is: I also still love her. And she has moved on from me and feels nothing toward Avery. Confused yet? It gets worse. He doesnt know that i still love her because i would feel like crap if he knew because it would crush him. AND even if she did like me, i would still say ';no'; because i would not be able to live with myself if anything happened while Avery still likes her. But he is obsessed with her and it crushes me every time he talks about his love for her. It feels like he is rubbing it in my face but he doesnt know so its not his fault. My friendship with Avery means more to me than a relationship with Heather. But it KILLS me every time i think about our situation. Am i doing the right thing by not telling him and living with the pain? What should i do?In need of some friendship/relationship advice! Please help!?
to say that u have a true friend, one u can depend on day or night is a rare thing. Girls and will come and go in your life before u find the right one. But a friend will be there forever. I would not tell him.In need of some friendship/relationship advice! Please help!?
Just tell him she was your girlfriend. He should understand that she is off limits. If he doesn't, he really isn't a friend. Simple as that.





Either way, if she feels nothing towards this Avery dude, why care? Let him try and get shot down. Then you can give him some head like you probably fantasize about doing.
Let Avery have her. I mean a week? There's probaby better gurls and you should tell him too if she moved.
There are more fish in the sea, and you only went out with her for a week. You'll get over her-just endure it for now.
If I was u I would not tell Avery because then it could ruin your friendship. Relationships come and go but friends are forever. This is very true...i have seen this happen.
ooh...sounds like ur stuck in a sticky situation. *pats ur shoulders* okay...*therapy session time!* please sit down and take a seat, any seat. okay...so ur afraid of telling ur ex's bf that you still like her...and u dont wanna hurt his feelings, when you're the one whose feelings are hurt?? hmmm........i like the fact that you care about his feelings and all, but what about you?? you know you've gotta stand up for yourself somehow, someway. yeah well since I have no idea what to tell you, you can play with my silly putty while I try to figure this out....

















SILLY PUTTY!




















still confused, broken up inside...dont wanna hurt his feelings?? hmmm....

















SILLY PUTTY!!!




















Confused, hurt, feelings....hmmm....???




















SILLY PUTTY!!!!!!!!!








confused...hurt....feelings....aaagggg… I CANT TAKE THIS ANYMORE!! that silly putty noise is driving me mad...okay okay! look why don't you just write out your feelings and give someone the pice of paper...anyone!! family, friend, sister, brother, grandma, your dog, your fish...better yet just give it to me!!? *sigh* okay, that's the best I've got. Also it was entertaining...specially the silly putty.








Hands back silly putty, a little sadly..





~hangs head low, as your walking out the door~





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YOU'D BETTER HAVE HAD ENJOYED THAT SILLY PUTTY!! cuse, there's pen marks all over it...write on a pice of paper next time?! okay?! kay. good.




















~slams door.!~




















boys...girls...cant live with them, can't live without them. =) ^_^